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Anonymous asked: How do I know if a guy likes me more than a friend? I've been close friends with this guy for several years, and I feel like he loves me but I can't be too sure. I'm in love with him, so it would be great if he felt the same. You can go a couple of ways…
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Anonymous asked: I'm a 17 year old guy and I think I have an eating disorder.. I don't care what I eat, but I'm obsessed with staying in shape. I don't want to be overly muscular though. I feel horrible about myself if I don't workout. I guess I'm obsessed with my overall appearance. I've been diagnosed with depression and I've been dealing with self harm for a few years, so mental illnesses are nothing new to me. Do you think I may have an eating disorder? I think you may have one, but I’m not doctor, so go see professional help please? Talk to your doctor or any other doctor and you can be properly checked out for it ok? Don’t worry about it. It’ll be fine, just go ask check. (: |
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Anonymous asked: From omegle, Um how do i tell my parent that im bi Just tell them. Don’t be scared. If they don’t listen to you or ignore you or start a fight. FUCK ‘EM. They should love you no matter what! Just tell them when you feel ready. |
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Anonymous asked: So, I took your advice about telling my bff I'm in love with him, although he doesn't know yet, since I have to send the letter. I can't call, text, or tell him in person, the whole Army thing. I'm terrified even though I'm pretty sure of the outcome, negative outcome. But I'm glad I did it being that I think this will help me get over him if this doesn't work out. Thanks for your advice, (: Awwh that’s so wonderful! Tell me what happens when he gets back to you please, I LOVE hearing about little love stories from people! And don’t be scared that there will be a negative, it is more than likely going to turn out well. And no problem, come back, any time! |
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Anonymous asked: I'm in love with my bff. This past yr we've gotten rly close, we ended up having sex twice. & still nothing was awkward, after awhile I started liking him & he found out, nothing changed. He flirted more often, tried to kiss me once I turned him down & he's asked me to move with him (he's in the army). I never knew if he was serious. Hes now getting serious with a girl he messes with, but idk if it's real, he tells me its not, that its just sex. Should I tell him my feelings are stronger or no? Tell him before it’s too late. Find out if he likes you. And if he does. Get together. If not, leave him to it, you could still be friends, just no more sex, or it’ll mess you up more. |
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Anonymous asked: The only relationships I've been in have lasted a very short time, a few months. I think this is entirely my fault. I get so bored with people easily. Not in a sexual way but with their personalities. I find that most people are extremely boring and say things they don't mean. I don't want my current relationship to fall apart. Because I realllly like this guy, but I can feel myself becoming bored with him. What do I do? Well try doing things as a couple to make your relationship more exciting, do things you’ve never done with them, and try to mix in with other friends you have so that you don’t spend all your time with him. Because if you spend time with your friends and not 24/7 with him, when you see him, you’ll get more of a pleasure out of seeing him and hopefully won’t get bored of spending time with him. |
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Anonymous asked: So I'm dating this boy though we've only been dating for 2months, he's the sweetest guy I've ever met and I really really like him a lot. I know it's too early to tell but I'm scared this isn't going to last long enough. We kiss a lot. Not saying this is a bad thing. But kissing only leads to have sex and I don't plan on going there with him until we're married (not saying we're going to get married) What if he gets bored of me. What if he gets bored of me? I'm just scared I'm going to lose him. If it gets to the point where he is speaking about having sex with you, just tell him the truth that you want to wait till you’re married. If he cares and loves you, he’ll understand and wait for it. Otherwise, if he doesn’t bother understanding and fucks off. Then it’s shit the way he acted, but at least you got rid of him before he done any damage to you and used you. |
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Anonymous asked: So yeah, basically I'm falling for him, but I don't want to tell him and ruin everything we have now, I don't think he feels the same way. Obviously I'm not in love with my current boyfriend because if I was in love I wouldn't be like this, but I have absolutely no idea what to do, so confused :( any advice would go a long way! Sorry for making this so long It’s fine for this being really long, it’s better that you’ve sent everything instead of hiding stuff. Okay, so first of all you need to sort things out with your current boyfriend. It sounds as if things are just not going to get any better if you don’t talk about it with him. In the end you need to either end the relationship and both move on, or just continue to -pretty much- lead him on and act as if everything is fine. The second choice is a bad choice, so go for the first one or try to sort out your problems as a couple. And with the second guy, your “best friend”, before anything happens with him you need to sort out your relationship first. That’s your priority at the moment. If you and your boyfriend do happen to break up, don’t just go running to this friend of yours as your boyfriend(well ex boyfriend) will just feel worse, so at least wait a few weeks. Buuuut.. I would also try and see that when you are single if everything is still the same with this friend as it was when you were in a relationship, as it could just be the “forbidden fruit” scenario and you could just be having these feelings for him since you have been in your relationship for a very long time. You have a lot to think about before doing anything, just don’t rush into anything without thinking. |
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Anonymous asked: and now we're best friends, we have absolutely EVERYTHING in common, I didn't think having so much in common with someone was possible! Every day I spend with him I'm the happiest person ever, I think of him every day, and when I'm with him I want to time to stop so I can spend forever with him. He is generally the nicest person I've met in my whole life, no lie! Basically, I think I'm falling for him (carrying on in third message, SORRY :/) |
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Anonymous asked: Okay, so, I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years, but the past year I've come to realise we have virtually nothing in common, and it's hard to keep a relationship going when you disagree on every single thing, no matter what people say, and I haven't been happy for the past 6 months, I can't bring myself to leaving him, because it would break his heart and I can't face it. So I became friends with someone around 8 months ago (will carry on in second message as it won't all fit!) |
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Anonymous asked: Okay, well, this is a long story. Basically, i live in Cornwall, and, i have a friend in Portsmouth, and i went up to stay with her for a couple of days, and, long story short, i ended up cheating on my girlfriend. Please don't think i'm a bad person for doing this, it's a lot more complicated then it sounds. But, me and my girlfriend broke up after, and now i can't get the girl in Portsmouth out of my head, and, i don't know what to do. I miss her so much. Okay first of all, you shouldn’t have cheated, you should of ended it if you thought something like that would happen. And secondly, if this girl is someone you really want her in your life and a part of your heart. Then do it. Go meet her when you can. Send her romantic presents. make her fall in love with you! Do all you can before it’s to late and you lose her forever. |
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Anonymous asked: Hey, um just wondering if you could help me. I'm 12, almost 13, and my father passed away when i was just a baby, time passed by,and now my mom has a boyfriend since like, last two years. One day my mom went to buy stuff for the house, and I was watching t.v. with him. I had been telling him that my body was sored, because I started precticing volleyball, and suddenly he was like, hey baby, do you want a massage? I'll write another one 'cause it won't fit. ~~~Reply in next ask~~~ |
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Anonymous asked: 2) And I was like: Oh yeah, a massage would do so much better, so he started with my back, but then he touched my butt, I didn't say anything, because it was not a big deal, then he touched my private parts and I said: Hey what?! And he was like: Oh, it's a massage, don't you complain... So I didn't say ANYTHING, because I saw my mom so happy with him, and she had finally someone to be with... This was like 3 months ago, and i don't know what to do... Your advice would help so much, thanks. I’m sorry to hear about your father. <3 And I’m sorry to say this since your mum is happy but you NEED to tell your mum about it. That is child molesting and you cannot have someone in your life that does that sort of thing. Your mum may be in denial but keep telling her, you need to get him out of your life now! |
